
In January 1983, a group of 'concerned friends' decided
something had to be done when a friend, a mother of two intellectually disabled
boys, had a breakdown. This breakdown was caused by the stress related to caring
for her very high needs children. Thus, a committee was formed to research the
need of a relief program for parents who had a son or daughter with an
intellectual disability. The need proved to be significant, as there were no
programs of this kind. The committee decided to focus on developing a program
that would provide parents 'out-of-home' relief.
OPAL III, now called OPAL Family Services, was incorporated as a charitable
entity in 1984 as a means of providing respite for parents who have a child or
adult dependent with an intellectual disability. Respite is defined as “an
interval of rest or relief.” OPAL strives to meet this need for respite by
providing services specifically designed to give parents a break.
The OPAL name is derived from the opal gemstone, which is the symbol of hope; at
OPAL, we strive to bring hope to the families that we work with. Parenting a
child with an intellectual disability is a continuous process (24 hours a day, 7
days a week), often without a break. Therefore, many parents become isolated and
burnt-out from caring for their children at home. Unlike other parents, parents
who have a child with an intellectual disability don't often get natural breaks
(respite). This is because their children don't always get invited to
participate in activities with other children. Parents often need to accompany
their special needs child to extra-curricular activities instead of just sending
them.
There is considerable stress associated with providing day-to-day care for an
individual who has an intellectual disability. Caregivers need and require
intervals of rest to re-charge their batteries and help meet the challenges of
parenting. As children grow, they need a variety of social contacts. Parents
cannot and should not have to fulfill all of the roles in their child's life.
They should play the parenting role and let others take on the roles of teacher,
playmate, and friend.
There are many reasons why families benefit from these periods of respite:
couples need to spend time together for leisure and recreation. Some parents use
this time to follow the interests of their other children, letting them know
that they are 'special' too. As parents age, they especially need respite time
to relax and rejuvenate, while knowing their child is being well cared for.
OPAL has an active Board of
Directors, and a staff of dedicated, caring
individuals.
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